Sunday, September 29, 2013

Unity Between Spouses

    Everyone knows that when two people are united things are much better. But how about spouses? How does unity between husband and wife effect the family as a whole? It is important to remember that children pick up on everything they see, hear and observe. When a husband and wife bicker, break each other down, and find fault with one another the effect on children is huge! Children will begin to accept what they see, we are creatures of our environment. Parents should never underestimate what a great influence they can be for their children. It is proven that when there is unity between husband and wife children fair better. Children are more likely to succeed in school, social environments and make better decisions when there is peace at home.

    "Marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator's plan for the eternal destiny of His children". When we look at our families as something ordained of God we are more likely to change how we run our home. Families are the most sacred gift the Lord has blessed us with, it is our job to make these homes a heaven on earth. Having family prayer invites the spirit and shows respect for everyone in attendance. Children should see their parents praying together, praising and uplifting one another.  Parents should seek to agree on things, to come together for their children and their marriage. Let us remember that a marriage is sacred. Marriage is a beautiful gift and "Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity."

Monday, September 23, 2013

Putting Aside Selfishness

     Lately in society I feel there has been this mindset that small families are ideal. The world is constantly portraying the perfect parents with two smart, athletic and preppy children. I have constantly wondered why parents are so wrapped up in this image. This image to create this small unit that looks perfect to everyone else. As I pondered more I looked into why I think families are having fewer amount of children. The best explanation as to why well educated, financially and emotionally stable parents are only having one - two children is simple, Selfishness.

       Parents seem to want their children to do exactly what they want them to do; To speak a certain way, play a certain instrument.. the list goes on and on. Parents are more concerned with their appearance; how nicely they all dress, making sure their children have the latest iphone etc. What happened to teaching children morals? To making our children work for things they want. Many parents have allowed the spirit of entitlement to rule their homes. It is ok to not give your children everything they want. Our purpose is to bring up righteous, independent, hard working children. Put aside your expectations, stop caring about what your neighbor thinks of you and turn towards your family and work from within!

      Becoming a parent used to be praiseworthy, an accomplishment, something to be proud of. Now days it seems as though it is almost a burden. Society is pushing so hard to tell woman that they have the same opportunities as men, that they should be able to do whatever they want. So I propose this question to you. When did our innate purpose as women, (to be a mother) become something so casual? We were put on this earth to learn and grow, to teach, nurture and bless...to CREATE families! The opportunities, growth, development and love that comes from being a parent is inmeasurable to any professional, corporate job. Ladies, please do not get the wrong message. To be a working mother is great. There is nothing wrong with getting your education and working. I however am suggesting we dig a little deeper. We as women should be proud to be mothers, proud to give up ourselves completely and put another human being first. Do not let society tell you what is acceptable. I promise that we would all gain greater blessings and lead happier lives if we put aside our own wants and needs and focused on something so much bigger... families!


This blog is devoted to families and their standing in the world today. This blog will be discussing how families have changed, the affects families have on society and much more. My goal is to uplift and provoke followers to look closer at their own families and seek out ways to improve their lives!